THINGS YOU LEARN AFTER BREAKING UP FROM A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP

 A toxic relationship is one that makes you feel unsupported, misunderstood, demeaned, or attacked. On a basic level, any relationship that makes you feel worse rather than better can become toxic over time. 

Most times, You don’t realize it at the time and try to hold on to it as long as possible. Because at that time you love them so much you decide to forget that you deserve more love, care and compassion from your significant other.

Below are the Key five lessons after breaking up from a toxic relationship

ALWAYS LISTEN TO PEOPLE WHO CARES AND LOVES YOU

During your toxic relationship, you would have noticed that your friends or family constantly warned you about your partner. It's not because they were jealous of you but its because they saw what you couldn't see since you were so in love to see. Therefore you should always listen to them. These will help you ascertain the fact in what they say.

PUT YOURSELF AND FEELINGS FIRST

Never put yourself or feelings after others. My Dear, you matter most in all. Self love doesn't mean you are self-centered, it means you need to be safe first to care for the other.  Whatever cost you happiness, health and wealth should be avoid and we know toxic relationships do not offer these.

FORGIVE

Forgiveness is not as simple as people say it, we know that. But you should know that forgiving that partner means you are healing. By forgiveness it doesn't mean you go back to them, just let him or her go. Letting go physically, mentally and otherwise.

YOUR GUTS SHOULD NEVER BE IGNORED

Never ignore your guts. Most times your guts are always correct and accurate. Your Gut is a feeling or reaction based on an instinctive emotional response rather than considered thought. You didn't just think it so its definitely true therefore, never ignore it. 

SET BOUNDARIES

Know that boundaries are healthy for any relationship. You should
state clear what you want in your relationship and how you want to communicate. Always be honest with your feelings. 

In all I wish you a healthy and lovely relationship.